She must embody the
well-rounded woman, her primary focus being career and family. Throughout the
centuries, the ideal image of a woman has changed dramatically. Girls are
guilty of having their lists of what traits make the perfect man, but we have
our own list of what makes the perfect woman. In part, I explored guidelines of
being the Ideal Woman took a look at that gorgeous, poised, smiling girl and
wondered, how do they do it? I would argue that a successful woman must be a
hard worker, driven, possess business room "game theory" and a
competitive nature.
The great qualities a woman can hold are a
long list and goes on and on, but here are a solid few that mostly anyone can
appreciate and respect;
•Careers are sexy
Are the days of a
trophy woman over? When men are asked about the makeup of their ideal partner,
majority claim they’re looking for a woman who can economically pull her own
weight in the relationship, has an adequate educational background…Success is
hot – just not too much success. Still, See ya’ later, gold diggers.
•She’s Honest and Upfront
The ideal woman will
recognize the destructiveness behind undisclosed expectations. You can be
straightforward and respectful about setting boundaries and the tempo of your
relationship early on.
•She’s Strong and independent
You should be
determined, driven and able to accomplish great feats. Your ability to be so strong is derived from
your own knowledge, intuition and ambition.
•She’s Patient
For yourself and those
around you, know how to play it cool. In the face of adversity, be able to tap
the proper resources to conquer any problem instead of just giving up.
•Has a defined purpose
Whether personally or
professionally, she has great goals and desires, knows that with the right
amount of inspiration and motivation, anything is possible and is willing to do
what it takes to make dreams a reality.
•Secure
You need to be
comfortable in your own skin. Jealousy, doubt and fear must sure go out the
window because you are confident in yourself and your choice in a partner-as
well as your partner’s choice in you. A real woman values a real man. She
appreciates and respects the value and worth of the men in her life. She knows
that part of being a great woman is recognizing and embracing the qualities of
a great man. She does not need a man in her life to be happy, but if she has
one she stands by him. She believes in his purpose and who he is.
•The right amount of drama
She has the right
amount of drama to share with her man both positive and negative. A great man
will be always be there for her (to listen and understand), but anything above
and beyond a certain threshold she knows to dish with her girlfriends and not
with him.
•A real woman has a healthy handle on her emotions
It’s OK to feel down,
bummed out or really shitty that one week out of the month but more importantly
you must know how to weather the storm correctly. If there are any shortfalls
on the emotional front, recognize them and adjust accordingly.
•There when needed
You represent a strong
link in the chain that holds those close to you together. You embrace the many
roles you play and are actively present as a mother, wife or girlfriend, and
friend. When needed the most you are there.
And finally, Smile.
Remember the saying ‘They might not need me; but they might. I’ll let my head
be just in sight; a smile as small as mine might be precisely their necessity’?
Find comfort in distinguishing the characteristics that prove you are truly
female; the make-up and feminine clothing.
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