Recently I came across
something interesting that most people can relate to. In some of our love
relationships, we may crave our partner more than they crave us. Of course,
this does not happen in all relationships, but it is an occurrence in others.
This feeling of craving your lover more than he does is also more common for
women than it is for guys.
Do you find yourself thinking
about him all the time that you could fall to pieces? When the phone rings, you
jump. He is the only thing you talk about in your conversations with your
girlfriends. Everything seems all right in your relationship. But every time
you are with him, he seems casual when you are super excited even after not
seeing each other for some time. He seems cool, when you are burning up for
him. You missed him so much; he missed you too but he doesn’t seem to have the
spark in his eyes when he says he missed you. You feel obsessed, but he’s
chilled out. He is affectionate, but the affection is not adequately intense.
Wow! Why is he acting this way?
If this is the vibe in your
relationship, it could be that the energy in your partnership flows from you to
him. Here is what I found out:
It is all in the spark connection! You might be at a point
in your fazed Love Cycle where you are simply incompatible with your partner.
You may laugh together, have great sexual chemistry but still feel insecure.
The greatest part is that his acting cool when you are hot has
nothing to do with you. It has nothing to do with him either. You
are OK, and he is OK but you are just not adequately OK together. So what do
the sparks have to do with anything? This may sound far-fetched but it could be
that you are in an ill-fated Love Blocking Cycle where you do not feel that
your partner is giving you what you need in terms of emotional satisfaction.
But this cycle will come and go and you could be headed to a more fulfilling
relationship where the energy flows from you to him and from him to you, in
equal measure.
It can be tempting to just break it off. But the truth is, if your sparks are still in the Love
Blocking Cycle, you will end up in a similar relationship with someone else.
The new guy will still act cool, when you are blowing hot. It might be better
to revise your expectations of this current relationship, enjoy what you have
for now. When your Love Blocking Cycle clears, there might be a deeper
connection between you and your partner or you will naturally move away from
the relationship into a more fulfilling one, fateful.
Lesson? Before you transit from
one relationship to the next, it might be wise to take your time, give it your
best, learn the lessons and anticipate the next big thing! Fate or a more
fulfilling path might work in your favour sooner than you think.
Written by Donna Mosses
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