Am afraid men need to be careful not to
cross these imaginary lines they seem to think exist. One might cost them
KShs.50,000 for an elegant dinner but the other might cost them years in prison
for trying to get what they 'want' by sheer force. So he thinks you meant 'yes'
when you said 'no'. What part of 'No' is so difficult to understand? A guy
thinks that just because he bought you dinner or drinks or whatever at the
Inter Continental that you are supposed to fall all over him and instantly jump
into bed with him. Seriously?
We don't want to be rushed. If we say
no, really they should respect that. There's nothing wrong with them making
sure we are serious, i.e try to touch us once more and see how we respond but
for crying out loud, why do they second guess? Any man reading this, please,
talk to us while you're making your move. That'll typically loosen us up and
make us more willing to get with you – If we want to.
I'm sure at one time or another, we all meet Mr. Great Persuasiveness and
Sexual language prowess, Smooth and Sharp,
who will sweep our hesitations away with their manliness, that we won't possibly resist, but believe
you me, it’s an effort he has personally put in to see how weak or strong you
are in having your wishes respected. He doesn't know if you will say yes. No he
doesn't. He gets the cues from you.
Dolls, please don't let him second
guess your voice and actions or body language. Get treated with dignity. You
are a precious gem, act it. Go out have fun, get drunk on the very drinks they
call 'Panty Removers' but refuse to get physical. It wasn't about sex, was it?
This might irritate him a little considering he was 'undressing' you with his
eyes back at the bar, barely waiting to get to bed with drunk you. But you have
no idea by how many degrees his respect for you will shoot up when you say No.
Let him ask to date you, make you feel special, suggest fun games together and
treat you like a person, a super girl, not a woman he can hopefully get
something from. Then you might reconsider.
We might as well make this phrase our
little anthem; “Just don't rush me! Good things come to those who wait” :-)
Written by Ricalda
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