• I am not
interested in her. She is the one who is chasing me:- Oh
I bet that you have heard this lie over and over again. A man claiming that it
is the woman who is forcing herself on him. He keeps saying he is not
interested, and yet still sleeps with her. Complex, but happens more often than
you would ever imagine.
• I was not
holding/kissing her. She was the one holding/kissing me:-
You find your boyfriend holding another woman. You are sure your eyes are
functioning at one hundred percent rate. You know what you saw. Yet he still
goes ahead and tells you this. You are blinded by infatuation. You know he is
cheating on you from under your nose, but this one time you agree to let it be.
• I can see
my children in your eyes:- No he cannot see
his children in your eyes. This lie is told so that you fall into the trap of “Oh
he wants to marry me.” Truth is, when the milk has been spilt and you have
jumped the broom prematurely he will turn on you and say he is not ready for
responsibility.
• I do not mind you attaining your PHD I do not care if you earn more than
me:- Believe me you, I have discovered that it is a man's world out there. Male
chauvinism is real. Men pretend that they do not mind you earning more... Men
pretend that they are proud of your continuous study and achievements. It is
very few, very scarce, who would genuinely love you regardless of your title.
• Having sex
will make us become closer: - The age old lie
that is told to the naïve. That breaks hearts of the freshers. When a woman has
sex with a man, she develops a certain strong bond and yearning for that man.
However, this is not true for men. They often develop the flight instinct, and
all they would rather do is flee as far as they can, away from you to the next
victim. No, sex does not make you become closer, it does not strengthen any bond
that was not already there.. Instead it spoils friendships forever.
Written by Maureen
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