Have you ever wondered
why we have differences in approach when it comes to women and men in emotions
such as anger, happiness etc, well am sure you have discovered this especially
those who are in any kind of relationships.....
Women are more
emotional than men and many may not agree with me if I was to say that ladies
are more intelligent when it comes to emotions and this goes a long way in
qualifying them to work in certain careers and even handling emotional
situations. Emotional intelligence refers to the ability to perceive and
control emotions. It involves four steps:
1. Perceiving the
emotions- involves reading emotions.
2. Reasoning with
emotions- it’s all about internalizing the emotions
3. Understanding
emotions- involves figuring and understanding
4. Managing the
emotions-knowing how to react and respond
Men are more into
problem solving than dealing with emotions. This only applies when active solutions
are required. Men's brains sense feelings at the moment it occurs; they tune
out of emotions and focus on ways to solve problems at hand. Ladies on the
other hand tend to stay with those feelings. This is all a brain difference;
men are tuned out of emotions while women are so emotional. It’s important when
both parties in any kind of relationship to understand this to avoid a lot of
misunderstandings.
If you are looking for
a more sympathetic ear, talk to a female and for more active and instant solutions,
men are the best.
The main reason I
stated above that ladies are more emotional intelligent above is because a
study states that they can act as a support system to friends and families,
they empathize more than men, and hence they are more fit in positions of
leadership, sales and teams. They are also able to handle stressful situations
than men by talking out their feelings or even joining friends and families.
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